Thursday, June 30, 2016

Downtown with Mom

Before Mom came, we were talking about fun things to do around Wellington, and she suggested that we go to a Contra Dance, which is something she's been enjoying doing in Oklahoma. I didn't even know if such a thing existed here, but she looked it up online, and it turns out that there is one every month. Not only that, but it is held in a church in Kelburn Village that I bike past every day! How funny!

So we went last weekend, and J very kindly came and danced, even though that's really not his thing. Usually these events are notably lacking in men, although on this particular evening, it was well matched. But it turns out that J is a very good contra dancer, for someone who has never done it before, and actually had a decent time. I used to know how to contra dance (loosely), and really enjoyed it, but have not gone since I was in high school, which I was somewhat shocked to discover was ten years ago! So we were both trying to find our feet, while Mom looked like a pro. Fortunately, there were other people there who were getting lost or confused right along with us, and the dancers who were always on the right step were very forgiving of the rest of us.

My partner for the swing we are about to do was very funny and exuberant (and also a good dancer, so he could get away with being silly and still be where he was meant to be).

This is a left-hand star, one of many moves that I either had never learned or forgotten.

Mom sat out one dance so she could take a video of the rest of us dancing. You can see us messing up, but also some good dancing, and an overview of the really quite wonderful live ensemble, with lots of interesting instruments. Also, the violinist reminded us of our friend Anna, which was fun. You can also see my partner trying to explain a particular move to me, as I repeatedly did it wrong. Oops!

Today, I took the day off work today to spend with Mom, and we wandered around interesting shops and especially used book stores on Cuba Street, which was great, despite the rainy weather.

One of our first stops was Louis Sergeant, which is a wonderful French café, owned and operated by the father of a child I teach. He is French, and has raised his son speaking French, so I get the unending delight of speaking to him in French throughout my days of teaching, which is so beneficial for me as well as for him. The father has encouraged me to stop by his café several times, and I hadn't made time until today, and now I'm so glad I did, because it was lovely! We had these beautiful drinks, as well as a delicious sandwich and wonderful duck fat wedges.

The most impressive part, however, were the little pastry masterpieces for dessert. Look at this amazing creation - and it was only one of many, each more unbelievable than the last! It had strawberry glaze, raspberry cheesecake, pistachio crumble, edible gold, and who knows what else! I will have to take J back there sometime and try some more! And it was so nice to say hi to the father/owner and speak French with the waitresses. A wonderful experience from every angle!

Thursday, June 23, 2016

Kirsten Dancing and Visiting Whanganui with Mom

For Mom's first weekend in New Zealand, we headed back to Whanganui to visit all my friends, who she met last time she was here - so they're her friends now as well. The consensus of everyone from the weekend is that we can't believe it's been almost an entire year since she was here last time!

The most exciting part of the weekend was FINALLY getting to see Kirsten dance in a competition! We have been trying to coordinate that for years, and it has never worked out, and it finally did - and it was completely perfect that my mom and Kirsten's mum could come as well, so the three of us made up a very respectable cheering section and had lovely chats between her dances.

This is Kirsten getting ready before her Latin Ballroom dances. She looks stunning! I have worn that dress to dance around the mansion, but Kirsten is more than six inches taller than me, so it didn't quite work. But I still felt fabulous in it!


This is Kirsten dancing with her dance partner Simon. Remember that Kirsten is 6 feet tall, plus heels, so thank goodness that Simon is very tall. They are an impressive couple!

I did Kirsten's hair for the competition - again, something we've been trying to coordinate for years, but it finally worked out! I was so proud and felt a bit like I had a part in all the beauty of her dancing, which was a great feeling.

Then Kirsten changed into her Ballroom gown, which is also stunning. Doesn't she look beautiful?

 This is a real-live action shot by a professional photographer who was there. How could they be so graceful and majestic while balancing and remembering the choreography and everything? Amazing!

We also had a wonderful dinner at the mansion with Kirsten and her mum, Margaret. After dinner, we had tea and cake (and carrots and wine) in the amazing china tea set that Kirsten inherited from her grandmother. The set is SO delicate and beautiful, and it was wonderful to use it. Also, you'll notice Bananagrams tiles in the middle - we played it all evening!

We also had picture-less but fantastic catch-ups with Jonny and his parents Ernie and Marie, and Belinda, and Jan, and Paula. It was a busy and completely wonderful weekend, made all the better by sharing it with Mom.

Thursday, June 16, 2016

Mom is HERE!!!

Best news ever - Mom is here for a visit again!!! Yahoo!!! It is so amazing to have her here!

She got here yesterday, and seems incredibly non-jet-lagged for having just travelled for 24 hours. We have already gotten started drinking tea and catching up, and are lucky enough to have a whole month of that!

We will be heading to Whanganui this weekend to catch up with friends. We're really looking forward to it.

Once we're back and have done some fun things to write about, I will write a proper post, but for now you get this mini update and the knowledge that I am loving spending my time with Mom!

Thursday, June 9, 2016

Matariki

Happy Matariki everyone! Matariki is the Māori New Year. It is marked by the appearance of the Matariki constelation in the sky just before dawn each morning, and starts in late May or early June. This year, it started on June 6th and will go until the 20th.

I always enjoy celebrating events of interest with the children, and Matariki is no exception. This year, we are teaching the children a waiata (song) about the stars in the constellation Matariki. I would love to post a video of us singing it, but as that would be a parental permission nightmare, I will settle for this video of some other children singing it.


The words are:
Tirama, Tirama, Matariki                      Twinkle, Twinkle, Matariki,
Me ana tamariki,                                   And her children,
Tupu-ā-nuku, Tupu-ā-rangi,                  Tupu-ā-nuku, Tupu-ā-rangi,
Waitī, Waitā,                                          Waitī, Waitā,
Waipuna-ā-rangi e,                                 Waipuna-ā-rangi,
Ko te potiti ko, Ururangi.                      And her youngest, Ururangi.

Obviously, in this waiata (song), which is based on a legend, Matariki is the mum star, with her six daughter stars. The children really love this idea, as they're very into mummys and daddys and babies.

There is also a legend that Tāwhirimatea, the atua (god) of wind and storms, was so upset when his parents (the sky father and earth mother) were pushed apart, that he ripped out his eyes and threw them into the sky, where they became the stars of Matariki. While this is not a pleasant story, it makes sense to me, because "mata riki" means "little eyes" and "mata ariki" (which it could have been shorted from) means "eyes of god."

We have also been reading a book to the children, and it tells another legend of the stars of Matariki.

In the story, Mītai is a boy with seven handsome brothers who fall in love with seven patupaiarehe (fairy women) with golden hair.

Mītai tries to tell his brothers that the putapaiarehe don't have good intentions, but the brothers don't listen, and they become so single-mindedly obsessed with satisfying all their picky whims that they waste away. Mītai spys on the women (in the form of a kereru/wood pidgeon) and discovers that it is their plan to starve the brothers to death.

Mītai convinces his brothers to get rid of the putapaiarehe, and they catch them in nets and give them to Urutengangana, the god of stars, who turns them into the seven stars of Matariki. Mītai's brothers regain their health, but still love to look up at their beautiful lost putapaiarehe.

I may write more about Matariki later on, as I'm interested possibly going to Te Papa Tongarewa Museum and checking out some of their Matariki events. In the meantime, if you'd like to read more, you can check out http://www.mch.govt.nz/nz-identity-heritage/matariki.